06-25-2021, 03:18 PM
- Get to know the person well. For some reason, at least for me, a meet-up feels different than a hookup. I look back on when I used to hookup with people and would do a lot more intimate things with a lot less familiarity and be fine, but when it was meet-ups, I never wanted to jump into it right away. Obviously, do whatever you're comfortable with, but it's normal to want to get to know someone for weeks to months before doing anything.
- Again, for me, it will always be awkward the first time meeting with someone new. Your preconceived ideas about how it will be will differ than how it actually goes, but that's okay. Eventually, it won't be as awkward if you continue to meet with the same person/meet with more people.
- A lot of people enjoy the talk, planning, and lead up to the actual meet and you may get a good amount of people bailing last minute because they're already satisfied.
- Be realistic. You might think you'll do six hours of wedgies, but when it comes time to the actual meet, you may have an hour to two of actual wedgies. Especially if y'all are keeping it strictly to wedgies and not anything else.
- If you're picking up sketch vibes from the person, trust your gut.