Wedgie cheating?

[Jack-ere-jack]

A lot of people in this community (myself included) are really nervous about telling people they know about their wedgie fetish, even if it's their significant other. That got me to thinking about whether people should consider getting or giving wedgies outside of their relationship cheating. I imagine most people will say this depends on the specific situation. So my question is: do you think there are situations where wedgies aren't cheating?

For example: If a straight guy is in a relationship and he has a meetup with another straight guy to do a couple wedgies, do you consider that cheating? The meetup wouldn't be sexual since both guys are straight, but at the same time, wedgies are sexual for people with a wedgie fetish.

I'd like to hear what you all think about this example or about idea of whether wedgies are cheating or not and why.

I think this is something that falls rather clearly into cheating. If you replace "meet up to do wedgies" with something like "meet up to kiss" or "meet up to do spanking" it quickly becomes apparent that you're doing something that you find sexual with someone outside of your primary partner. If it's something that the person performing the actions wouldn't want their significant other knowing about then the set up is already pretty shaky ethically.